Do we take Nudity for Granted?

You probably found your way here because you were surfing porn. (Followers aside. But then... how did you guys first get here to follow? Humn?) I love the female form. You probably noticed? So do I have double standards when I see young girls flashing at clubs, when they clearly have had too much to drink? I think close-up and personal flashing should be something lovers do. Definitely not something to do when drunk. Do I sound prudish?

Now, on the Internet. Ah, now. Humn, there goes that double standard. So what's the difference? For every exhibitionist should there be a voyeur?

I think the key is the artificial relaxant. If you need it, then you probably shouldn't be doing what you're doing. I think self-respect should come into it somewhere. And if the girls concerned don't respect themselves, how do they hope to attract guys that respect them?

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Hello Laura

I've just noticed comments from a new poster. (9 March 2010) Takes me a while, but I get there in the end!

Her words of wisdom can be found at Romance and Bondage.

I posted a question Do Nice Girls Wear Leather? (Feb 2010) Her comment was:

Laura said...

I'm a nice girl. My brother introduces me as the "nice sister" though he has 3 sisters. I babysit for my other sister, even when I don't really and truly want to. I smile at people just to bring more smiles into the world. I really believe it is so easy to be negative and so important to be optimistic and positive in the world. There has to be a balance.

And yet, having said (or typed) all of that... I am Domme. I have such a good time being wicked and evil in this way. Maybe it's because I am so nice. It does get a bit tiring being nice. It is particularly annoying the way people assume someone nice is easy to take advantage of and gullible. Maybe being a Domme is my bit of payback. As we all know... payback is a bitch.

I don't know about wearing leather. I am a BBW. I haven't bought fetish wear before. I do like showing cleavage sometimes. With a lot of cleavage to show I am select about how much and where I show it. Leather is kind of expensive to try and find I don't care for it. I'm not overly fond of tight clothing. I enjoy romantic looking clothes more than dark and leathery.

Writing this was so much fun I am going to post it to my own blog now. :)


Thank you, Laura. I was wondering if any ladies read my blog, now I know. I hope you know the reason for my delay in replying, and also hope you continue to add your 2c, so I can spend mine a little more wisely.





P.S. About that cleavage...

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Holiday Season Again

Are you thinking of your holidays, again? Time to kick back and relax? Looking forward to a well deserved rest? Well, in my fantasies I have a different kind of holiday planned...











Sometimes a little help is required.

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The Masochist says to the Sadist...

"Hit me, hit me." But in my fantasies she does...

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Tell Me A Story

I think this is my favourite fantasy. Just as I keep returning to the chastity theme, I love to be told stories. Being a captive audience is hot, too.

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Throne's At It, Again

A little while ago, Throne wrote a story in my honour: Sweet Asian Bride. Again, thank you, Throne.

So he's at it again, but this time the theme is with a BBW bride. It's called Teased In Chastity, and is great, but what happens next? As a taster, I found this lovely lady while surfing, and I could imagine her in Throne's story. (I've used Throne's words for the caption.)



Both stories, as well as others are on Alterboy's super website.

Throne, keep up the good work.

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It's The Uncertainty Of It All

It all has to start somewhere. I think exploring this kind of play together is the best. There are all sorts of questions, as everything is new. In fantasy, of course, all the questions are answered to everyone's satisfaction, and so the game commences.

You may think the following collection of captions shows a wide range of lovelies. You're right. I just can't make up my mind which type of lovely I like the best. I wonder if I'll ever find someone as indecisive about chastity release dates?

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Statistics of Monthly Blogs

Looking at the number of posts over the months of this year, it looks like I'm getting lazy. I'm not - honest! I'm just putting more captions in one post. I think it's because I've already touched on so many of the subjects before. I don't think I used an index, so the topics are hard to find, now. No substitute for planning! We are all geniuses in hind-sight. Oh, well. Enjoy this eclectic collection of captions.

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Thinking About Holidays

Ooops, been a while between posts. Sorry. 81 followers? Must be doing something right, though!

I feel sorry for the people stranded when their tour operator went bust. In my perfect fantasy world they should've flown Chastity Airlines...



Then once you arrive, the fun begins...

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Excuse Me, I'm Ranting

How many of us can separate the point of the rant from it's volume? Just because someone has lost their temper, does that mean that their point is invalidated?

I think wisdom is generally in short supply. One of my favourite cartoon books has an ordinary guy say, "May God grant me the strength to change the things I can, the wisdom to recognise the things I can't, and a red Ferrari."

I think that the opposite is also true. Someone telling the most outrageous lies will be believed, if they say it calmly and with sincerity. - 'cause no one can fake sincerity, right?

Moving onto the kinky stuff: I prefer my mistresses to look dangerous, but not be dangerous. I also like them to not loose their tempers. I think I've said this before: She might punish you, but she's never angry with you. It's the only way to remain safe, sane and consensual.

How many of us can say we also apply this principal to outside BDSM?

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Runaway Train

I've noticed that comments on this and other blogs are more favourable when the captions describe very mean keyholders. I guess the submissive voice, (usually silent. Gagged, perhaps?), has spoken? I find the notion that the guy is the instigator of his own teasing is very hot. Hope you like these?

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